You are about to start your journey!
So often we don’t even know what our own passion and vision are.
How then can we ask for support from our partner or support them?
We all have some ideas, some preconception, some notion of what kind of committed, romantic relationship we would like to have, whether the form looks like dating, co-habitation, marriage or some other path. For “better or worse” we have this internalized vision.
The issue though, is that our intimate partner ALSO has an internalized vision of how they would like to live out their idealized relationship and the two visions might not be entirely compatible!
Unfortunately, most couples do not share very much of their individual vision prior to making a commitment and only find out over time that there are some bumps in the road
A “shared relationship vision” will merge you and your partner’s ideas for how you would like to share your lives together in order to build a deep, lasting partnership.